11.How to Live Peacefully with Your ParentsAs a teen,you are going through big changes physically and mentally.Your interests are expanding.(36)E.
Here is the challenge:kids need to explore the world in new ways,and parents need to protect them from the dangers that are all out in the world.These conflicts(沖突)can easily set off fireworks in otherwise calm house.Sometimes conflicts can't be avoided.But by paying attention to the building blocks of successful relationships,you can work towards making home a happy and healthy place for you and your parents.
For example,try to find time to talk when your parents are not angry,tired,or hungry.A good time to talk is when you are all relaxed.Timing is everything.If the conversation begins to turn into an argument,you'd better calmly and coolly ask to stop it.(37)G.Listen to what your parents are saying,and repeat it back to them.This shows them that you are listening.(38)F.
Respect is the building block of good communication.People who respect each other and care about each other's feeling can disagree without getting things ugly.
(39)D.How do you build trust?Trust,comes by actually doing what you say you are going to do.Some teens find that doing fun activities with their parents can improve their relationships.Sometime we forget that parents are more than rule makers---they're interesting people who like to watch movies and go shopping---just like their teenagers!
What do you do if you are trying your best,but your relationship with your parents continues to be rocky?(40)AYou can find supportive adults,such as a teacher or a coach,who can lend an ear.Remember you can only change your own behavior.Your parents are the ones who can change theirs.
A.You may consider seeking outside help.
B.Faced with this challenge,children don't know what to do.
C.And then you will be able to accept what your parents say.
D.You are more likely to get along with your parents and have more independence if your parents believe in you.
E.And your desire to take control of your own life is growing.
F.It also gives them a chance to clear things up if you are not on the same page.
G.You can pick it up again when everyone's more relaxed.