Even if you are naturally shy, these three tricks will help you to quickly build a new social circle in any new city.
1. Take pictures
One of the great things about taking pictures at an event or party is that it gives you an excuse to get in touch with the person later. Everybody loves seeing pictures of themselves, and it’s very easy after taking a picture to say “If you’d like I can email it to you”. This can be the seed that leads to new connections. The next time you hear about a fun event email your new contacts to let them know about it.
2. Eat alone in public
You might feel self-conscious eating by yourself but it has an important benefit: you are much easier to approach when you are alone. People may be afraid of interrupting you or being rude if you are in a conversation with someone else. Bring a book or newspaper to read (this will make you feel less self-conscious). Plus, having an interesting book with you will give others an excuse to start a conversation if they’ve read it.
3. Join a class, sports team, or club
Yoga, salsa dancing, volleyball, Toastmasters (a public speaking club), a class for work, etc. Take up a new hobby or continue an old one!
These are all great places to meet new people, primarily because you will be forced to see the same people over and over again in the class. You will automatically make friends with them if you have a common interest and are forced to see each other again.
Tips:
* In the beginning, never turn down an invitation from someone, even if it’s something you wouldn’t normally do.
* Email your new friends with fun things to do instead of always asking what their plans are. If they have a better plan you can drop yours and join them. This will help establish you as someone who is contributing value instead of just taking it (people want this in a friend).
* Don’t let little things in life upset you or be a negative person. People don’t want to be around someone like that!
【小題1】________ can give you an excuse to start new connections.
A.Taking pictures of others |
B.Eating by yourself in public |
C.Reading interesting books |
D.Joining group activities |
A.a(chǎn)pproach others to show conscious friendliness |
B.sit on your own in public places |
C.invite others to your apartment to eat together |
D.start a conversation with those who have friends aside |
A.Try to be outgoing and talkative instead of being shy. |
B.Never turn down an invitation from your friends. |
C.Offer suggestions on how to spend time together. |
D.Always give a positive response to any request. |
A.why you should change when you move to a new city |
B.how you can make new friends in a new city |
C.why you should make new friends in a new city |
D.how you can keep in touch with strangers |
【小題1】A
【小題2】B
【小題3】C
【小題4】B
解析試題分析:本文作者向我們介紹了如何在新城市里交朋友的方法和一些秘訣。
【小題1】細節(jié)題。從文章One of the great things about taking pictures at an event or party is that it gives you an excuse to get in touch with the person later.可知,此處選A
【小題2】細節(jié)題。從文章You might feel self-conscious eating by yourself but it has an important benefit: you are much easier to approach when you are alone.可知,如果想要交到朋友,我們應(yīng)該在公共場所獨自一個人坐著吃飯,故選B
【小題3】推斷題。從倒數(shù)第二段Email your new friends with fun things to do instead of always asking what their plans are. If they have a better plan you can drop yours and join them. 可知,此處應(yīng)該只有C為正確答案。
【小題4】主旨題。從文章Even if you are naturally shy, these three tricks will help you to quickly build a new social circle in any new city 可知,作者寫這個文章的主要目的是告訴我們?nèi)绾卧谛鲁鞘欣锝慌笥,故選B
考點:日常生活類說明文
點評:本文文脈清晰,結(jié)構(gòu)很好把握。說明文是歷年高考很常見的文體,對于科技類的說明文比較難,而對于說物的文體較容易。本文中,把握好一個中心即作者介紹了如何在新城市里交朋友的方法和一些秘訣。同時,此類文章中推斷題要理解作者寫作的意圖,方可作答。
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So you have been called for an interview-well done ? Your effort has been paid off . Now to get the job , you will fell better at the interview if you show an understanding of the nature of the organization .
Ask a member of family or a friend to act as the employer and to give you an unreal interview . Be as realistic as possible , answer the questions seriously . Afterwards discuss how it went .
Think about how the employer would prefer to see you look . Remember the majority of employers are over 30 .
It is not wise to rush out and buy new clothes which will be worn for the first time at the interview . You’ll feel more at ease (自在) in a familiar dress .
Carelessness in any of these could cost you the job . Arrive at least 15 minutes before time . This will give you a chance to have a look around , read the notice broad and get the feel of the place .
Being late at interviews produces a bad impression. The first impression the interviewer gets of you formed as you walk through the door , so take a couple of deep breaths .
Be ready to shake hands of the interviewer offers .
Don’t take a seat until asked . Then sit comfortably .
Make eye contact when you are greeted and again if you shake hands , and during questioning . Eye contact is a form of non-verbal(非語言的) greeting .
Remember the interviewer’s name and use it from time to time .
Be ready for the question “Is there anything you want to ask?” Before the interview you should get ready for two or three such questions. Look on these not just as a chance to get information but as a means to improve your prospects (前途)in the employer’s estimation(判斷).
Asking can show knowledge and avoid mistakes even before you begin . You can check on these later , when the hope for job is offered .
And if you fail , look upon the interview as an experience in itself , learn from it .
We wish you good luck and good job hunting .
72.Before you go to see the employer , it is better for you to_____________ .
A.put on your newly-bought clothes
B.have you hair cut
C.buy some modern and beautiful ties , shoes . etc
D.find a dress which you’ve got used to
73.To make a good impression , it is important for yo_____________ .
A.to walk through the door quickly
B.not to see the interviewer’s eyes
C.to sit down in front of the interviewer
D.to remember the interviewer’s name and use it sometimes
74.The underlined word “eye contact” means_____________.
A.looking at each other for a long time
B.a(chǎn) kind of greeting without any words
C.shaking hands with the employer again and again
D.a(chǎn) way of getting a wonderful job
75.People usually do the following things before a job interview, which is the right order for doing them ?
a. Asking a friend to give you an unreal interview .
b. Understanding the nature of the organization .
c. Paying attention to your clothes .
d. Arriving at the place of the interview on time .
e. Getting some information from the advisers .
A.a(chǎn), e, b, c, d B.d, c, b, a , e C.b, e, a , c, d D.e, d, a , b, c
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So you have been called for an interview-well done ? Your effort has been paid off . Now to get the job , you will fell better at the interview if you show an understanding of the nature of the organization .
Ask a member of family or a friend to act as the employer and to give you an unreal interview . Be as realistic as possible , answer the questions seriously . Afterwards discuss how it went .
Think about how the employer would prefer to see you look . Remember the majority of employers are over 30 .
It is not wise to rush out and buy new clothes which will be worn for the first time at the interview . You’ll feel more at ease (自在) in a familiar dress .
Carelessness in any of these could cost you the job . Arrive at least 15 minutes before time . This will give you a chance to have a look around , read the notice broad and get the feel of the place .
Being late at interviews produces a bad impression. The first impression the interviewer gets of you formed as you walk through the door , so take a couple of deep breaths .
Be ready to shake hands of the interviewer offers .
Don’t take a seat until asked . Then sit comfortably .
Make eye contact when you are greeted and again if you shake hands , and during questioning . Eye contact is a form of non-verbal(非語言的) greeting .
Remember the interviewer’s name and use it from time to time .
Be ready for the question “Is there anything you want to ask?” Before the interview you should get ready for two or three such questions. Look on these not just as a chance to get information but as a means to improve your prospects (前途)in the employer’s estimation(判斷).
Asking can show knowledge and avoid mistakes even before you begin . You can check on these later , when the hope for job is offered .
And if you fail , look upon the interview as an experience in itself , learn from it .
We wish you good luck and good job hunting .
72.Before you go to see the employer , it is better for you to_____________ .
A.put on your newly-bought clothes
B.have you hair cut
C.buy some modern and beautiful ties , shoes . etc
D.find a dress which you’ve got used to
73.To make a good impression , it is important for yo_____________ .
A.to walk through the door quickly
B.not to see the interviewer’s eyes
C.to sit down in front of the interviewer
D.to remember the interviewer’s name and use it sometimes
74.The underlined word “eye contact” means_____________.
A.looking at each other for a long time
B.a(chǎn) kind of greeting without any words
C.shaking hands with the employer again and again
D.a(chǎn) way of getting a wonderful job
75.People usually do the following things before a job interview, which is the right order for doing them ?
a. Asking a friend to give you an unreal interview .
b. Understanding the nature of the organization .
c. Paying attention to your clothes .
d. Arriving at the place of the interview on time .
e. Getting some information from the advisers .
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So you have been called for an interview-well done ? Your effort has been paid off . Now to get the job , you will fell better at the interview if you show an understanding of the nature of the organization .
Ask a member of family or a friend to act as the employer and to give you an unreal interview . Be as realistic as possible , answer the questions seriously . Afterwards discuss how it went .
Think about how the employer would prefer to see you look . Remember the majority of employers are over 30 .
It is not wise to rush out and buy new clothes which will be worn for the first time at the interview . You’ll feel more at ease (自在) in a familiar dress .
Carelessness in any of these could cost you the job . Arrive at least 15 minutes before time . This will give you a chance to have a look around , read the notice broad and get the feel of the place .
Being late at interviews produces a bad impression. The first impression the interviewer gets of you formed as you walk through the door , so take a couple of deep breaths .
Be ready to shake hands of the interviewer offers .
Don’t take a seat until asked . Then sit comfortably .
Make eye contact when you are greeted and again if you shake hands , and during questioning . Eye contact is a form of non-verbal(非語言的) greeting .
Remember the interviewer’s name and use it from time to time .
Be ready for the question “Is there anything you want to ask?” Before the interview you should get ready for two or three such questions. Look on these not just as a chance to get information but as a means to improve your prospects (前途)in the employer’s estimation(判斷).
Asking can show knowledge and avoid mistakes even before you begin . You can check on these later , when the hope for job is offered .
And if you fail , look upon the interview as an experience in itself , learn from it .
We wish you good luck and good job hunting .
72.Before you go to see the employer , it is better for you to_____________ .
A.put on your newly-bought clothes
B.have you hair cut
C.buy some modern and beautiful ties , shoes . etc
D.find a dress which you’ve got used to
73.To make a good impression , it is important for yo_____________ .
A.to walk through the door quickly
B.not to see the interviewer’s eyes
C.to sit down in front of the interviewer
D.to remember the interviewer’s name and use it sometimes
74.The underlined word “eye contact” means_____________.
A.looking at each other for a long time
B.a(chǎn) kind of greeting without any words
C.shaking hands with the employer again and again
D.a(chǎn) way of getting a wonderful job
75.People usually do the following things before a job interview, which is the right order for doing them ?
a. Asking a friend to give you an unreal interview .
b. Understanding the nature of the organization .
c. Paying attention to your clothes .
d. Arriving at the place of the interview on time .
e. Getting some information from the advisers .
A.a(chǎn), e, b, c, d B.d, c, b, a , e C.b, e, a , c, d D.e, d, a , b, c
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