What do we really mean by being open? Being open is a kind of invitation to others to come in, to speak and to share. It is important in letting others get to know how we think and feel. In this way we will be understood and accepted by others. If we aren’t open with others, we won’t fully believe in ourselves or others.
Here are a few ways for you to be more open. First, make your outside behavior the same with your inside feelings and thoughts. Second, share how you really feel about something instead of just opinions. Third, try to change your questions into statements(陳述句) and talk in the first person so that people will understand you more easily. For example, you might say, “I feel happy that you’re here,” instead of, “Are you glad that you’re here?” Finally, try not to say, “I don’t know.” This usually means I don’t want to think about it any more.
Remember also that it is not suitable to be open with everyone in every situation. You may want to be more open with close friends, but not with people you don’t know well, because you are not sure how someone else will use what they know about you. Besides, some people may not be used to too much openness. If we say everything we feel or think to them, they will feel very uncomfortable at times.
In all, being open is a good way for us to get on well with other people, but we’d better keep the balance between being open and not being too open.
Title: Being open | |
Meanings of being open | l 1 others to come in, to speak and to share. l Show others 2 we think and feel. l Let others understand and 3 us. l Believe in ourselves and others by being open. |
4 to be more open | l Make 5 your outside behavior is the same with your inside feelings and thoughts. l Try to share your 6 feelings. l Make statements instead of 7 and use the first person. l Try not to say, “I don’t know.” |
Reasons for not being too open | l Someone may use your 8 to hurt you. l You will make them feel very uncomfortable 9 . |
Conclusion: It will 10 us get on well with others if we keep the balance between being open and not being too open. |
【小題1】Invite
【小題2】how/what
【小題3】accept
【小題4】Ways
【小題5】sure
【小題6】real/true
【小題7】questions
【小題8】information
【小題9】sometimes
【小題10】make/help
解析試題分析:
【小題1】細節(jié)理解題,根據(jù)文中語句“Being open is a kind of invitation to others to come in, to speak and to share.”理解可知。開放就是邀請別人進來。故用invite。
【小題2】細節(jié)理解題,根據(jù)文中語句“It is important in letting others get to know how we think and feel.”理解可知。開放還意味著讓別人了解自己,故用how或what。
【小題3】細節(jié)理解題,根據(jù)文中語句“In this way we will be understood and accepted by others.”理解可知。開放還意味著讓別人理解自己并能接受自己,故填accept。
【小題4】細節(jié)理解題,根據(jù)文中表格的語句理解可知,此處是開放的方式或方法,故選ways。
【小題5】細節(jié)理解題,根據(jù)文中語句“make your outside behavior the same with your inside feelings and thoughts.”理解可知。確保你的言行一致,故填sure。
【小題6】細節(jié)理解題,根據(jù)文中語句“share how you really feel about something instead of just opinions.”理解可知。一定要說出您的真實感受,故選real或true。形容詞。
【小題7】細節(jié)理解題,根據(jù)文中語句“try to change your questions into statements(陳述句) and talk in the first person so that people will understand you more easily.”理解可知。在跟別人交談時一定多用陳述句,少用疑問句,故選question。
【小題8】細節(jié)理解題,根據(jù)文中語句“You may want to be more open with close friends, but not with people you don’t know well, because you are not sure how someone else will use what they know about you.”理解可知。
【小題9】細節(jié)理解題,根據(jù)文中語句“If we say everything we feel or think to them, they will feel very uncomfortable at times.”理解可知。有時我們會讓別人不舒服,故填sometimes。表示有時。
【小題10】細節(jié)理解題,根據(jù)文中語句“In all, being open is a good way for us to get on well with other people, but we’d better keep the balance between being open and not being too open.”理解可知。
考點:此文重點說明怎樣讓自己更外向,如何外向
點評:閱讀中注意作者提出的怎樣外向和如何外向應(yīng)注意的問題.然后帶著問題再讀短文,找出與答題內(nèi)容相關(guān)語句,反復(fù)閱讀,反復(fù)分析,然后確定答案.閱讀中要善于從短文信息中總結(jié)推測出所需答案,注意所填答案與短文中相關(guān)語句的關(guān)系,與相關(guān)單詞短語的關(guān)系.
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D.The train. |
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